What you need to know
The range of traditions and customs in Jewish weddings isn’t just divided between denominations. Even within Reform, Conservative and Orthodox versions of the faith there are different customs and rituals to choose from. No matter which you choose to follow, there are some things which every Jewish wedding involves:
- Jewish weddings are solemnised under a chuppah
- Ceremonies can be held in other venues other than a synagogue
- Weddings can take place on any day except the Sabbath (Saturday)
- Jewish weddings need two applications, one to the local register office and one to the religious authority under which the ceremony will take place
Catering and venues
How kosher a location and caterer need to be depends on the couple, the Rabbi, and the guests. It may seem obvious, but if you are having trouble planning a kosher reception and meal or finding a Kosher caterer, ask around in your synagogue. Try our suppliers’ directory if you need some more help.
Dates Jewish Weddings should not take place on
- Fast of Esther
- Purim
- Pesach
- Shavuot
- Rosh Hashana
- Fast of Gedaliah
- Yom Kippur
- Day before Succott
- Fast of Tevet
Customs and Traditions
- The Ketubah
The ketubah lays out the rights of the wife and obligations of the husband. It is usually read out in Hebrew or English by the Rabbi and signed by the husband.
- The Chuppah
A chuppah is a canopy normally consisting of a cloth supported by four poles, symbolic of the home which the couple will build together, and is also representative of the presence of God presiding over the marriage. Orthodox Judaism often recommends that there is open sky directly above the chuppah.